Some dude: um I think you mean PEOPLE need to stop murdering PEOPLE
A woman: no actually I was talking specifically about violence against women.
Some dude: OMG????!!!!!! YOU THINK MEN DESERVE TO DIE??????!!!!!?!?!?! EVERYONE THIS PERSON IS SAYING VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN IS OKAY????!!!?!?!?!! women are so ILLOGICAL thankfully I am here to REASON WITH YOU, hate breeds hate ok
2. If you don’t want to go somewhere, don’t.
You’ll end up having a horrible time & wishing you stayed home.
3. It’s okay to break plans/ cancel dates. It’s okay if you’d rather watch reruns of your favorite show all night instead of going out. It’s okay to take time for yourself. It is okay.
4. Overuse the word no.
5. Wear red lipstick & mascara every time you leave the house especially when you feel like shit.
6. Everybody has a type, you will not be everybody’s type & that is more than okay.
7. Love yourself. Love your body. Love every beauty mark on your face because no matter how long/healthy/curly your hair gets/ how much weight you lose/ gain, there will always be someone who still isn’t satisfied with you, fuck them.
8. Do everything you do, for yourself. Never make decisions around the opinions of others.
9. Fuck everyone’s opinion.
10. Have fun, drink too much, smoke every blunt that’s passed to you. Laugh at everything you find remotely funny.
11. One night stands don’t make you a slut but remember, your body is your home, don’t let just anyone inside of you. People leave pieces of themselves behind & there’s some things you just don’t want lingering. So always be mindful of who you’re sharing yourself with.
12. Your heart will be broken again & you’ll live through it.
13. Boys are stupid. Focus on things that make you happy until a real man comes along.
14. Know your worth. If he lies to you/ disrespects you/ cheats on you, leave. Don’t stick around, you’re better than that & he’s not sorry.
15. It’s okay to be alone, it’s actually healthy.
16. It’s important to love yourself more.
17. People leave.. even when you’re hysterical because you know it’s coming & they wipe your tears & kiss your face, promising you that they’ll always be there.. Sometimes they leave anyway, let them go.
18. Life goes on. Drink a glass of wine & get the fuck over it, whatever it is, it won’t even matter next year; so much won’t matter next year.
19. Ice cream can ease a hurting heart. Crying is a great release & nothing to be ashamed about. You’ll be called a bitch more times than you can count, be the baddest one, don’t let that shut you up. Always defend yourself. You won’t always regret drunk sex. Buy every book that catches your eye, there’s no such thing as too many books.
20. No one has your back like your mom.
21. You’re all you have. Don’t let anyone mistreat you. Don’t talk down about yourself. Obsess over yourself. Know how to turn yourself on & get yourself off because some boys aren’t that skilled. Don’t settle for shitty sex or boring conversation or dinner at a restaurant you hate. Drink alot of water & get way too much sleep.. Make sure you’re taken care of & happy because no one else is obligated to.